They always say when one door closes another will open.
I’ve heard multiple ways for that saying but that is the one I heard the most.
There is nothing wrong with making decisions to change things up to fit your desires better.
Who cares if its a job, a city, a lover or a friendship. You are not stuck anywhere or with anyone. They are all a few choices away from being different. When you decide to be free to make your own decisions the whole world opens up to you.
The question is how long will it take you to decide to make the change?
Will it take you even longer to accept it and forgive yourself for it?
There are a few things I have learned in life, without needing to randomly question it.
Here is the most important.
Everyone needs to have that group of people that they can just unload on without worry. Sometimes its just one person, sometimes its ten of them.
Life without them however is not ok.
They stand by you when you go through a breakup. They are right there when you fail that test, again. They don’t judge when you drop plans because you aren’t in mood (unless you do that too much.) They just get you. They don’t hesitate to call or show up at the wrong time.
They know that life brings high points, laughter, and great memories.
They also know that there will be bad times. Low times. Bad diagnoses, deaths, tears and heartbreak’s.
And yet they stay, through all of it.
Those people are vital. ❤
It seems as though these last few years has brought out the asshole in everyone doesn’t it?
Everyone seems to have forgotten to have a filter on what they say to other’s. What’s worse is the excuses they use to explain away the bad manners!
Sure we all have different opinions. These opinions come from life experiences, stories we’ve heard from people we know as well as online sources/news stations.
I respect that. I respect your opinion. I respect your decisions. I applaud you for standing for who and what you believe in.
When the hell did that give them the right to tear down others that don’t agree wholeheartedly?
Who says what you believed in was the end all for every human being? Why would they not be able to have their own opinions?
Who the hell do these people think they are, honestly?
I watch my children as they go through things that I absolutely remember going through myself and can’t help but feel proud.
I have worked to keep open communication with them all, while firmly keeping the mother child roles in place. I will find out so much later that I missed or messed up on because that is the way that this job works.
However for today I will sit back and allow myself to be proud of them for the choices they make. I will also chose to be proud of the way my husband and I have raised them so far. I look forward to more of these feelings to help counteract the days I feel the polar opposite.
Apologize to your body.
Thats where the healing begins.
Learning the healthy normal in my relationship is going to be the new challenge in my life. We have forgotten how to function as a couple with all this running around parenting and working.
Recently he has had to switch a different shift that works him an opposite shift as mine. As much as space is something that our relationship thrives from, this may be a little too much space.
So I am looking around at different things that can help us re-center our focus. While I am mainly focused on getting us fun positive time together as a couple, I also would love to strengthen our communication.
Yup, I said it.
That magic “C” word that always gets thrown around in a relationship. Everyone can stand to do a little work in that department, at any point of the relationship. However when we are as strained as we are, I think that it is important.
Check back soon to see if I can get him on board as well. 🙂