Recently I have noticed that when you force people around you to notice the good things that people do, they resist.
You cant make them do it.
The only thing that you can do is surround yourself as best as you can with positive things. Cute little sayings on canvas that you can post around your house. Inspirational videos to watch instead of news coverage of the most recent atrocities in the areas near you. Find a way to remove the most negative people around you, in the most effective way possible. Sometimes thats as simple as to stop calling or messaging the person. Block them on social media instead of deleting them.
Find what makes you happy. Who cares what other people think. Who cares whoe doesnt understand your passions.
Does it make you happy?
Does it bring you peace?
Does it calm your nerves?
Then do it.
Taken off an android cell phone, deep filter applied.
Taking the time to notice the small things around me. I have always loved weather patterns, clouds and the effects that it has on people.
These are the days that I like to take headphones, a good book and a water bottle with me out to my stand alone hammock and just relax.
Today I challenged myself to spend time alone. As a young mom who continued to have children for many years, I never gave myself time to learn who I was.
I continue to challenge myself to shed old skin and become who I want to be, not who I was forced to be. I love my children beyond any words, however I lost myself.
Now it’s time to find me.
Making the decision to make changes or try something new is hard. This idea to put my feelings, my thoughts, my inner peace onto paper for everyone to read is daunting.
My opinions can be different from yours.
My feelings can feel different than yours.
My eyes can see the same thing that your eyes see, but I can still see it different than yours.
I can still say it. I can still put my pretty little fingers to these nice keys and type it out. I can still express my thoughts.
So can you.
I just want things to slow down for just a few damn days. Time to take a breath. Be part of the calm. Remind myself who I am as a person, not just the runner of errands.
Today was one of those days that make up for the bad days.
The family was able to keep the fighting to the bare minimum. The teenager gave in to the constant pressure and actually spent time with us. The phone only took over a few times, but that’s much better then constantly.
The little ones were very agreeable to the various outdoor activities that we accomplished. They only complained and cried for no reason a few times. Piece of cake compared to what I am used to recently.
Don’t get me wrong, I have great kids. I truly love spending time with them and when my husband can join in, it truly is amazing. Between bike rides, parks and baseball we absolutely kept busy.
You know what that meant?
LITTLE TO NO ELECTRONICS!! I didn’t have to pry them away from these silly devices that we all are getting a little too addicted to. There is a time and place for everything of course, and I kept everyone a little calmer by giving everyone a hours time after lunch to play on something. I of course napped, because that’s what moms do right?
This will be the one that makes me smile through the bad days that are bound to sneak up on us.