To all beings that are able to read this blog….
Don’t be an asshole!
This doesn’t seem like the hardest thing to accomplish right? Excluding specific experiences that deserve that response of course.
I mean in general. More specifically to what brought me to this topic I will acknowledge that I really mean in a relationship.
When a person has chosen you, and you have chosen them, to build a life with, why would you wreck that by being petty? It’s one thing in the beginning before things get too serious, however years down the road when there is so much invested.
Houses, kids, cars, pets or the simple peice of paper that you both stood up and signed in front of witnesses. Any combination of those listed options works too.
When you can not choose to respect your partner, to CHOOSE your partner every day, in almost any situation then there is a problem.
(Disclaimer before people come at me- I believe in choosing yourself and possibly your children first all of the time. I am in no way speaking of situation that involves people safety, physical or mental.)
I AM however speaking about cheating. If you are unhappy in your relationship, leave. If you are unsatisfied in your relationship, speak with your partner about what could change. If you settled for any reason whatsoever, and you meet The One, and you are sure, leave your relationship.
If you are the one switching from one social media site to another constantly because your partner is catching on, I am speaking to you.
If you are the one deleted texts, calls, DM’s, or changing peoples names in your phone to not get caught, I am talking to you.
If you just can’t help yourself from going to the bar, flirting with people and taking things too far, I am talking to you.
I am sick and tired of having to pick people up mentally, morally and yes sometimes physically because you suck as a human.
You are pathetic and do not deserve the people who dedicated stretches of time to you.
Do better. Be better. Better yet, go the f*** away.